Jan 06 2009
Losing a Child
It’s a tragedy, something no parent should have to deal with. Losing a child would undoubtedly cause a lifelong hurt no parent could ever recover from. I can’t say for certain but I’m sure the void left by the child’s death would forever be filled what ifs, a burden the parent would forever carry with them, wondering what they could’ve done differently to save the child’s life.
But why is it that we are only examining this plight now, following the death of John Travolta’s son, Jett? The national news’ hearts, along with the nation’s, are bleeding all over the place for this Hollywood icon since he lost his only son this past week. Why? What makes him so special that a family tragedy should spark such empathy from the world at large. I nearly died at sixteen when I was hospitalized following a stroke brought on by an unprovoked sucker punch from a man twice my age. Would my mother’s grief make national headlines? Would it be a top story on Larry King Live?
Children die every day in this country. Do we mourn as a nationĀ for the thousands of parents whose children have parished in the line of duty in Iraq and Afghanistan? Or the parents who watch their children live short, pain-filled lives dying of leukemia, expiring before they learn to walk, where’s our outpouring of sympathy for them?
I genuinely feel sorry for they guy; no parent should have to deal with that. It’s the media that has soured me on this subject. This sorrow that John Travolta feels is felt by people everyday but it takes a celebrity’s experience to make it something to report on. Then they all feel so distraught over it. Then their heart’s go out to the parents. If they’re going to report on the death of a celebrity’s child for days, then they need to dedicate an entire channel to the thousands of others who experience this pain everyday.